Introducing
When you got married you had dreams of starting a life together, creating and fulfilling your dreams and of growing old together. You were in-love. And that lasted. It was good, maybe even great and amazing. You’re not in-love with the MLC Monster. Heck, you’re not even in like with that Monster. But your spouse—the core person who you know is somewhere stuck in there—you love that person. You miss them and you believe in them. You’re in it for the kids, you don’t want them to grow up in a broken family and you’re in it because you still love your spouse and you want to heal your family. But you need help.
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In this module you will learn the basic definition of Detachment as we apply it to relationships as well as additional concepts of Detachment.
Why is is so important to Detach?
Why is it so hard?
What are the benefits of Detaching--how will it help me?
Knowing who you are not only enables you accept and embrace the present, but also look forward to who you want to continue to become and what you want to do.
Often times we get lost in our relationships and identify with our roles rather than with who we are at our core. It's time to rediscover you!
This module consists of a variety of projects to help you focus on who you are and want to be.
Embrace the joy in disoering and being you!
Brain Anatomy
What's going on when we react?
Why are we reactive?
You'll learn a step-by-step plan of action for becoming responsive both in the moment and by planning ahead.
What does it mean to be CoDependent?
No, it's not just for relationships with alcoholics! Learn how you may be CoDependent in your relationship and what to do about it.
Are you CoDepedent?
How and Why: A review of the signs and symptoms
Overcoming CoDependence.
MLCers love to challenge boundaries! And Forward Moving Spouses like you are often afraid to set them.
Why?
Fear
Learn about the different kind of boundaries, how to set boundaries and consequences and overcome your fears.
Because I feel Mindfulness is so important, I don't want to focus on it in an isolated module. Instead I've embedded Mindfulness lessons and projects into every module.
I've created a variety of projects to suit different learning styles and interests. Dive in and try several.
Each week you can join the group for live coaching sessions where you can listen in, ask questions and discuss your progress, challenges and wins with the group. Session will be recorded and the scheduled time will alternate each week to accommodate our global community.
Recordings of Group Sessions will be added to your course area IF there are more than 2 of you in attendance.
If you're either not interested in Group Coaching or you're unable to attend, try the Self-Study option and save a little!
I've created two downloadable guided meditations lasting about 18-20 minutes. These meditations are focused on letting-go, acceptance, choosing joy, embracing peace and accepting the process of healing you are taking on your journey to your becoming Best Self and Thriving.
The five modules will be delivered across the eight week course.
Some will be a week apart and other will be two weeks to give you time to implement the lessons.
Mindfulness units include projects, tips and tricks, lessons along with an introduction to Mindfulness tools and resources.
This is your opportunity to ask me questions, discuss your progress and get to know your of peers. Join in or just listen.
I have created two meditations that are focused on helping you implement the topics within the lessons.
$197 USD
3 MONTHLY PAYMENTS OF
$77 USD
$347 USD
3 MONTHLY PAYMENTS OF
$133 USD
I get it. You research all sort of help for your marriage and everywhere you go someone’s making promises or trying to sell you something. And here I am doing it as well. I don’t want to be another desperation impulse buy in your search for a magic pill.
I’m proud of this course and it’s my hope that you’ll appreciate it as much as I’ve loved creating it for you.
That’s why I’m offering a 30-day money-back guarantee. I can’t make you a guarantee about your marriage, but I can guarantee your satisfaction with the information I’m providing…or you may ask for your money back.
It’s as simple as that. If you’re not happy with your purchase, I’ll refund your money within 30 days of the first day of the class.
Detach & Thrive won’t change your spouse. It won’t stop their midlife crisis and it won’t save your marriage. This course is for YOU! It's about focusing on you so that you can heal. Healing gives you the best chance at thriving in your marriage if your spouse someday chooses to return and the best chance at thriving if your spouse doesn't return. But this course is about you, not your marriage. It's about healing you; marital healing can be a byproduct of your healing, but only if you heal. This isn't even a course about Midlife Crisis! Sure, we'll talk about it, but that's not the focus.
Detach & Thrive will not work for you if you don't put in the work. This course is your gift to you. You have permission to spend time on you, to heal, to love you, to embrace you and to choose joy for your life going forward.
…because then maybe they would have detached sooner, or stopped beg-n-pleading or stopped arguing and blaming themselves or just stopped thinking that their spouse was just a jerk or b1tch…
The best time to start healing and detaching is 2 minutes after Bomb Drop; the second-best time is now.
Of course that seems like a pretty tall order, right? Who can do that! I get asked a lot about Detachment, but many Forward Moving Spouses have said that it's such a struggle and they don't like being reminded over and over how they aren't doing it; they feel like they're failing.
I don't want you to feel like a failure! Detachment is hard. It's also something that's easier to explain than it is to do. The struggle isn't in understanding the what and why, but in applying it. That's what Detach & Thrive is about, taking the idea and making it actionable while guiding you through the process.
It doesn’t matter whether you want to Stand for your marriage, you’re uncertain or you’re done and good riddance. Now is the time because life isn’t going to hit the pause button while you spin in confusion. You need to show up for life and to do that you need healing and support.
$197 USD
3 MONTHLY PAYMENTS OF
$77 USD
$347 USD
3 MONTHLY PAYMENTS OF
$133 USD